GEL
Thanks for the insight. Yes, it sadly really sounds bleak indeed. I guess my point is that I would want to nail down as many facts as possible before making a decision though. 20+ years of M is a really huge thing to end. Even with the writing on the walls and tensions high, I still think it important to know where things really stand.

Sure, it looks 99% certain that her H is being a tool. Plus, his ILYBINILWY garnish really completes the beautiful dish of hurt he is serving Baffled. Though, in the off chance that some how things do turn around, it would really make a difference to know weather it was a PA or just a EA. Well, at least that would make a difference to me.

Baffled
I really feel for you. In case it helps, know that your fan base up north is rooting you on.


By all means marry; if you get a good wife, you'll be happy. If you get a bad one, you'll become a philosopher. -- Socrates