Just checking in to see what's happening with you and I see a lot!
You've given me a lot of positive information on my thread, and I wanted to share something with you that struck me as I was reading one of your comments:
I know how things were in the past, and it was awful. I don’t know if it’ll be any better this time around. We’ll see.
Isn't that something that our spouses are thinking or saying about our relationships? They are afraid to be in the same spot in the future, right? Maybe you need to DB yourself...I am sure it will be hard, but keep a PMA..write down your goals and challenges and see what you can do.
Just my 2 cents worth.
FS
ps/ I started a new thread under newcomers, please stop by when you get some time.