Still here, following and keeping tabs on you Andy ( )
Just wanted to bring up an issue I have faced a few times in the past few weeks with H....He'll say something in a tone of voice that I don't like, sometimes he talks to me like I don't have a brain in my head....well, it used to set me off and I'd get my button pushed. Not so anymore, not for a really long time now. I know he notices the change, and is starting to really 'get it' that it's a permanent change, but I find myself upset that while I've changed how I react to him, he has not really changed how he acts/reacts to me....when I ask him not to do that anymore he acts as if he has no clue what I'm talking about. He assumes that I'm gonna fly off the handle like I always do (did) so he goes for it. I can see and feel the changes in me, but still don't notice any really big, significant changes in him.
It's not that I want him to be a different person...but there are still things about him that I'm not too fond of. I guess it's actually my perception (like how I tossed that one in here??!!) of him, isn't it.
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