I don't know if that post conveyed it or not, but I am fine. I said my peace and I have let it go. We have had a really light night full of laughing and just plain fun. I think this direct stuff has it's advantages. In some way, I DO feel closer to her now that I could express myself, negative things at that, and still not get ANGRY in the process, and neither did she. We BOTH said some negative things but neither of us focused on those things. We got them out, talked about it and moved on. It was a REALLY nice way to do things. I still don't know if I did it right or not, but it felt ok.
As for me not believing her, well, lets just say that she did a pretty good job of convincing me this evening that she was with GF. Throughout the night she talked a bit about things GF said, etc. It was believable but still... I can't get over the playground thing. I did talk to her about that again and she said they spent the whole time on the other end of the mall. Oops. The first time, when I asked her where she may have been when I was there, she said they were in a store RIGHT outside that area. Like I said, it would have been nearly impossible for two women with two boys each, each having complained about the lack of kids stuff in this mall, to have missed that. It just would have been, sorry.
Anyway, enough of that. I am moving on. Like I (and you) said, I can't control it. She either went to the mall with GF and had phone issues, or she is lying straight to my face. In any event, I can't dwell on it, and I won't. It's done.
