Thanks for your posts. I don't really have time to respond like I want to but suffice to say I am considering what you both said. I need to calm down I think. The only problem is that you both are saying different things. One of you (rob) is saying not to keep this in, to express how I feel, what I think NOW, as W has asked me to.
Always, you are saying (i think) to just STOP my thoughts like I used to do back in the height of the affair.
I agree with both of you. Maybe I need to calm down and then speak to her as soon as I can without all the emotion.
Like I have been saying, unless I just refuse to talk to her, I don't think she'll let me choose the time and place of this convo. She WILL address it.
We'll see what happenes.
Thanks again all. I am heading home now. Any more thoughts are appreciated.
