Quote: Only cause we've lived through it. Yes, it's NOT fair that we have to be patient in this mess right now. I am struggling with this now. BUT, it's kinda what this whole M and love thing is about. Also, I created such bad trends in my M, so did H, that I don't know truly if this can work unless I undo them and see if it can work. Ex: I want to see, in the absence of my sins, if the M can work?
I am prepared to accept that it may not. That H still can't see his side of things, and there is his side. I cannot live with someone who cannot see that it takes 2, and he needs some changes as well. But, at the very least, do everything, right now, to do YOUR part. It WILL inspire H's to do theirs. If not, then, there's your answer.
You may as well have posted this to me too. My biggest fear right now is that I HAVE NOT CHANGED as much as I think I have and that I am still the same P/A controlling, angry man I was a year ago...damn!
