I truly hope your W is not lying to you. I wouldn't give her the "test" though, that is not very DB like. Hang in there!
I know. What I am wanting/feeling I should do right now is NOT very DB-like but DB's approach to this is all about detaching from negatives when you see them as such, right? I WANT to believe my W when she says OM is gone and she's with GF today, but this just feels exactly like it did all those months where her phone would mysteriously go on the "blink" during the times when she had the best opportunity to see OM. She later confessed that it was true, that she WAS with him a lot in those hours.
So now, this happens and I want to ask her point blank, when was the last time you saw OM? The MOST irrational part of me wants to talk to this GF (not that I think she wouldn't cover for W, I actually don't know if she would or not) and see if W was with her.
ALL VERY UN DB. I suppose, in another admission, I thought my W committing to being honest with me, something she would not do earlier, excused me from certain parts of DB that prevented me from directly asking her these things. I just don't know anymore. Am I just paranoid? Am I going nuts? Is she really full of $hit? I just don't know anymore, and the worst part is, I have no real reason to think any of it that was not there a week, two, four ago.
