Quote: You should ask yourself (and ask your W) why it is you want to ML to her so badly. I could be wrong, but it isn't about sex at all. It's about being close to each other and being able to look into each others' eyes and knowing there is something special between the two of you that, regardless of an A, no one else will ever share and no one can ever take away.
This really made me wake up and smell the coffee. It's not really the sex that I want either. It's the feeling, I want to feel like my H truely loves me and only me. I want reassurance from him and am associating that feeling with ML. Now along with thinking about how not to be passive/aggressive I have even more to think about. I will be spending so much time with introspection that I'll have no time left to think about my stich - this could be a good thing!!
