I was reading the post by underdog on Mama's thread and I got to thinking.
Something she said about her XH, and this part was a little vague (or is that me) but I think she was trying to say that he had an affair with someone and blamed a lot of it on his passive/agressive behavior.
Wow, whether that's what she was saying or not, the description of someone who is passive/agressive, or just plain non-confrontational, getting involved with someone and failing to stop things at a certain point because of their "issues" seemed to be a REALLY good description of what MAY have happened with my W. She has alluded to that before and I think this MAY fill in some gaps in what happened.
I also realized that my own fear of confrontation is much worse than I thought and I really need to get a handle on it. I am bumping that up to 1st priority when I get back with C in a few weeks.
In the meantime, I have a lot of thinking to do. Maybe this can help me get my mind off sex...lol.
