gh: when you say you give her back rubs, can you honestly say you put alot of effort into it, i mean real effort. her on the bed and you over her, really massaging her muscles, deep, and not just for a few minutes, long, hour long, back, legs, feet, hands, neck, every muscle she has. trust me this does something, it really relaxes them, and the more intense you are the more they appricate it.
