i think a talk about sex is not a good thing, that would put more presure on her than the normal r talk. i think you should just be more aggresive when it comes to sex. just keep pushing the issue without talking about it. persue her in a sexual way. if she turns you down then keep trying, turn up the heat. you say you have done little things, do bigger things, yea you might get rejected, but you have to keep trying, every chance you get. it will work, i promise you that. but i would NOT talk about it, she wants it to be natural and so do you. you need some for of touching to get it going, and im telling you, get some massage oils. she is stressed with the dui thing right, show her you care buy getting massage oils and tell her you want to relive her stress. i mean give her a hour massage, not just 5 minutes. you have tried things, but have you tried this one, if not then do it, you might be suprised. she DOES want you to pursue her, she is just scared, so if she says no keep trying, dont piss her off, but keep trying, in less then a week she will be in you arms i promise.