OT, thanks so much for responding. I was actually just on the Lovers Lane website ordering some "things" for me. The granny panties have been going for a while now. I have invested in quite a bit of sexy underwear (feels great since I have lost so much weight on the LBS diet). I am also learning to not be my H's "mother". Something that is very difficult for me to do - this is my 180. I have a tendency to want to do things for everyone, to take care of them. It's time to let go, and take care of me!!