GH, I didn't mean to imply that your marriage was over. I don't think mine is either. Although, I have a huge trust issue right now and have been told so many lies that sometimes it is hard for me to believe things that H tells me about our future. He could be telling me these things to shut me up and pacify me all the while making promises of a life with the OW. Who the heck knows.....
What I do know is that our marrage cannot improve without a physical relationship, in fact it will die a slow and painful death. I have made attempts but he does not seem responsive so I back off for fear of making a fool of myself and being rejected.
If OT or anyone for that matter can give some suggestions on how to move forward, it would sure be appreciated.
