Quote: To be honest, if I were your W, after having an A with some kind of passion in it, I'd again be seriously looking at leaving at this point and probably making a plan to do so, maybe a few years down the road. You know, do it the "right" way.... But, I doubt I'd have my head in the M very much. Having found myself sexually reawakened and then put back in bed with what feels like a sibling, I'd be unwilling to accept giving up my sexual self for the long haul again.
You are playing half the game here in which you are an asexual bedwarmer. All this does is maintain the status quo. I don't think that is going to get you anywhere.
OT, that is brutally honest. I've often thought the same of my sitch. If our spouse's are possibly feeling this way, do you have any suggestions for things that we can do or do you feel we are just spinning our wheels and our M's are over?
