Hi GH,
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This is now feeling like some sort of protest speach, lol.


yes, this is the Berkeley child of the 60's coming out But thanks also for this
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that's a GREAT challenge to all of us, to define who WE are, both within and without our marriages.


that's what I'm up to - clarification of who I am, and what matters most, what I truly believe and am committed to. Thanks for being with me on that road.


PositivelyListening
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When one door of happiness closes, another one opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us. - Helen Keller