I was reading your responses on Mamabear's thread. I tried to kiss W last weekend and she said she was not ready for that and would tell me when she was. Then the next morning I cuddled with her in bed (did not spend the night or anything). I am the one who intiates any contact. She does not. I had her convinced that any contact with her was going to lead to sex. Maybe touching her and cloying attempts to be affectionate are a bad idea right now. I would love to do a date night with her and I and watch a movie and jsut cuddle. Anyway your thoughts?