GH Saga, Part, well, too many to count.

[RBinBR]

GH, your thread is the best place for your rant, because it needs to be said, and your threads are the most read on these boards due to your willingness to give lots of good advice. PARob, your post is right on target.

Unfortunately (and I'm not the first to notice this), there ARE those on this board who interpret DB'ing as a passive thing. They are either unable or unwilling to self-evaluate. They don't really GAL. They don't experiment and monitor results. They don't do 180's.

All they do is complain every day about how awful their spouses are and how bad they feel. I'm not saying that venting is bad -- quite the opposite. But venting doesn't do anything to advance your sitch, and venting doesn't have anything to do with DB'ing.