Ron, I'm glad that you're still following my thread. I really think that I have a success story brewing here.
Just a couple of months ago things looked so bleak. W talked in absolute negatives. She din't love me and never loved me. She couldn't remember a time when she did love me. Letting go lovingly and sincerely with no pressure absolutely does work. We laugh together now and enjoy each othe's company. I look forward to coming home so that we can spend time together. We are going out on a date every Thursday night, even if its just for a cup of coffee.
I still keep the ILYs to a minimum. Talk is cheap. She sees by my actons how I feel about her. She is beginning to realize that it is for real and not just an act to win her back.