Thanks, Ron. I really want her to have the space that she seems to so desparately needs, but I'm really uncomfortable with her moving upstairs. I've kept my big mouth shut.
I'm going to have to set ground rules, and that won't be too easy. I think that she feels that she will be able to come and go as she pleases and then be able to retreat to her place and lock the door. I have discussed it with the kids and they will only be cool with her coming and going at will only if they can do the same with her. Sounds fair for everyone except me.
I gave her a copy of His Needs, Her Needs this morning and she was paging through it. The first chapter describes her A to the letter.
