John,
Unless she asks, I would not offer.
I would also lay off the hugs and stuff too. That is pressure.
No OR talk or anything. Anything you say or do now in regards to the move will be seen as control.
You said yes to her moving now you can't take it back without causing a huge rift.

BTW,
When I moved my ex(experience ) after I helped set up her bed,computer, everything I hugged her goodbye and left.
When me and the kids got to my truck she had forgotten something. When I went back and knocked at her door guess who she was already on the phone with?? You got it, om.
So basically I set her up in a place to screw him and all I got was a bad back and milage on my car.
Don't do it. Don't rescue her. Go away that weekend..
Ron