I let loose on her with both barrels last night. When she got into bed, she told me that she was upset with me for visiting her father on Saturday. She told me that her dad got upset when he saw me and I shouldn’t be visiting him. Did I visit with the same man? He hugged me when I saw him and we spoke only briefly about the sitch. I let him know that I only want the best for his daughter and grandchildren. The conversation was very cordial. Maybe she doesn’t want her family to hear the truth?
I then stuck it in her face about running away, rather than facing her problems with me. I got real heated and told her that all she does is keep running and avoiding facing the problems. I told her that she couldn’t stand to be alone and if it weren’t for OM she would have never asked for a sep. I even offered to file the papers if she wants her space so much. I even said to her that if OM was so perfect, how come he dumped you. Silence.
Ron, I know exactly what you are saying. She is so wrapped up in herself right now that nothing else matters. I tried to give her a little taste of reality. Don’t know if it backfired or not.
