John, Your still pursueing too much. Breakfast in bed and a kiss. Just hand her your heart and ask her to be careful with it. You are putting pressure on her John. You need to detach and stop the Mr. kiss butt for awhile. Remember, she should be kissing your butt. I did all the stuff you are doing now. You know how my ex took me as being. Pathectic. The only way I have gained her respect back has been by taking care of me and the kids and forgetting her. The only way you can make this better is by backing off. Have you ever broke up with someone who was clingy? Would'nt you want someone who was strong and indepedant? om was exciting and mysterious. You should start turning the tables and distancing. It worked when you went away. Let her start pursueing and if she does not at least you know she is not interested in continuing. Quite honestly when she moves out to the apt I would change the locks and let her know she can't walk in at any time. Face it, right now your single. Act "as if" and enjoy it and let her see you moving away from her. She'll never know what she has if she never miss's it.. IMHO Ron
