Thank you Loretta, but putting a time limit on falling back in love may be interpreted as pressure. I told my W to take as long as she needs to sort things out. This will give her the chance to see that I have changed without giving her any time constraints.
Anger from the kids is a tough thing to deal with, especially when the anger is pointed at you. You cannot minimize their feelings. There was a time when my daughter said that she would never speak to mom again. I explained to her that that’s how she feels now but her feelings would change when she wasn’t as angry. Sure enough, she has been gradually coming around.
Last night turned out to be very interesting. I was annoyed about the OM call so I was acting a little cool with my W. She didn’t work last night so she just went to sleep at about 9pm. I went to bed at about midnight and said nothing to her. She turned over to kiss me good night and one thing led to another….
She did not return my ILY, but was very affectionate. Don’t get me wrong, I am thrilled, just a bit confused. Something to do with the OM call, do you think?
