When My H wanted to come home and work on the relationship I told him he couldnt come home until he dedicated all four seasons to me and the children. By dedicating himself to us for that year it allowed me to fall in love with him again and it gave him a chance to say he was sorry and prove to us all that this is really where he wants to be. My H has been home 6months now we are still working on the relationship but his anger is gone. Even with the children. I remember one night my daughter was really angry why are you letting Daddy sleepover. She ran upstairs hysterical, we brought her down and she was able to scream how angry she was at him and that she will never love him again for what he did to this family. He was able to say I understand how you feel I do love mommy and I want to come home soon. I hope one day you can say you love me. I was then able to say to my daughter, mommy is being very careful, if at any point I feel daddy is not interested in dedicating himself to us he wont be able to come home. Loretta
