I'm so sorry that you had to make the decision for him once again. You're right---you deserve someone that is willing to give you 100%, and no, you don't deserve to have to share your man. Your X wasn't ready to put his whole heart into this---too bad for him. He lost the best woman and ended up with a FUG. Hopefully the man will come to his senses before you have found someone that sees what a catch you are.
Your X is an idiot.
You know that I know exactly what you are going through. You will recover quicker this time, trust me. Not that that makes it any easier. I guess what makes me angry is the fact that he put you through it all over again. And I still don't understand why these men can't seem to give up the FUG's and the toothless old hags. What they see in them, I will never know.
Right now I feel like all men are pigs. I know that there are good men out there (sorry to those of you out there reading)--but I haven't seem to run across any in a while. The good ones seem to be married--but then they lose their minds and leave their wives and kids for some nasty bimbo. Guess I've even lost my trust for knowing what a 'good one' really is.
Friend, sorry to get off subject. I just wanted you to know that I support your decision, and think that you handled it in the best way that you could of. You have to watch out for yourself, and I think that you explained your feelings to him well. You told him what you needed from him.
