"I told him I truly understood what he was going through but that it didn't take away the pain. And that if in the future he wanted to try and he could honestly say she was gone, gone for good. Maybe then."
It was interesting to read that your heart is saying shut the gate and your head is saying be receptive. Usually it's the other way around.
In my mind, what you have decided is the best thing. Not only for you but for everyone. You are too good a woman to share a man with another female. You deserve better, you deserve exactly what it is that you want.
You've drawn the line in the sand. Your Ex knows exactly where you stand on this. He also knows now that what he wants, he can't have. He's going to have to make a choice now.
Suit
"It's better to have no spouse than have a bad spouse"
