I'm so glad that you posted - I have been thinking about you so much. I am not happy that things are not going so well. I don't want to be a pessimist but I really understand what you are saying. I lived through it when my ex moved back home. It was awful. He was so depressed.
Your friends here all understand. Their posts are so good -right on target. You've done so well without him. Don't let him ruin it. He HAS to do the work or it will never get better. Don't let him suck you back into the depression and drama.
I know you must still love him in order to want to give it another go. That is admirable. I wish it were going better for you.
My ex was never content. Always wanted bigger and better. My BF is always content - what a difference that makes!
"Contentment comes not from having what you want, but from wanting what you have".
