Friend,

I feel like I have missed what has happened in your situation since he said he wanted to come home. Did he end it with OW? Has he moved home? What things is he doing that is making you feel hopeless about his happiness. Is he expecting things from you or just not giving to the R?

I understand your frustration and you are right, you are not responsible for his happiness but I know that they can make us feel like we are.

I fear my H may be one who is always on the search for happiness, whether a new car, bike, OW? He may never be happy with me.

wed2

wed2alien

Both 49, M 23 years
3 teens
April 2004- bomb, moved out
April 2006-Ended with OW for the LAST time
May 2006- He wants to work on the marriage!!
Nov 2006-- Moved home
May 2008- Things still getting better