I found you over here in Piecing. You do what you need to do. We all want what's best for our Friend. I truly understand where you are when you say he can't truly be happy. I've been there. I can't take responsibility for someone else's unhappiness. Neither can you. In reality, he's been given so much from you. If he wants it - it's there. It is your x's choice from here on in. You know you'll be ok, either way.