Ok, not new to the BB but to this thread.......

[BeingMe]

" I'm really looking forward to the future but I also have my eyes wide open. "

This should be a mantra we should be saying to ourselves everyday, while piecing our M back together and beyond. Too often, we were living in the past, with our eyes closed, and didn't see what the heck was happening to our M's, and ultimately our family, until it was almost too late (in my case, anyway). Especially, those long-term M's.

All the best on working on your R, FRIEND! Glad to see another successful story.