That does help, although, my H has never looked back. He still has some of his things here, but I dont' think they are that important to him. I got the impression that he couldn't wait to get out. Our girls were grown, youngest was startign collage when he left, so really nothing to come here for.
He's not living with the OW, but I'm sure they are together alot. He said they have talked about living together. I pray that he will "come to his senses", but I do need to move on more than I have. how did the OW feel about him having his boat at your house?