Ron's earlier suggestion of the "take it or leave it" attitude is probably the best route to go. Lately, I've been letting her know that I don't want to leave it. I'm not acting needy or anything, just loving and caring. It doesn't seem to be working.
I picked up Harley's book, His needs, Her needs at the library on Saturday. I going to give it a look. His website has alot of good insight into infidelity.
