My relationship with my Ex after he left and after the divorce was distant on my part. I wanted nothing to do with him, he left, that was it to me. Sometimes I would be friendly with him, but I was so hurt that was pretty tough.
Julie, I would say about a year after he left, maybe even alittle before, he always came around. He would even ask me if in the future we could date. How weird was that? Really weird. He never really left, left. He parked his truck in my yard, and kept his boat here so he came over for those things. Plus I have two daughters and he was always in contact with them.
I stayed my distance, only way I could survive. I got my life together for me, made plans for my future, it was the only thing I could do. My Ex was living with the O/W for 5 years, yep 5 years.
Says he finally learned what life is really about, his family............even with all the money he could of had, it didn't mean anything without us. Some people really have to learn the hard way.
I hope this helps and best of luck to you.
Julie, remember, do for you..........make yourself better, don't worry about what he's doing. It's the only way to live.
