Your thread is so interesting and of course it caught my eye. I have been separated from my H for 3 years, D for 1. I am still hopeful, but of course there is an OW and she has been there since before he left. my question is What kind of relationship did you and your Ex up until now? My Ex has been pretty distant, for the most part. We have seen each other occasionally, and he has said many confusing things. We were married 27 years when mine left.
