I was referred here from the MLC forum (my W left me) to witness your 5 year journey.
I fervently hope your reconnection with your H goes very well in the weeks and months ahead.
One quick question. In your message you noted this:
Quote: Says he has wanted to come home since about a year after he left, just didn't see how to do it. Felt like 3 different people in his mind.
What are your thoughts about your H "just didn't see how to do it" (come home, return, reconnect, etc)? I can imagine that the spouse who leaves could get so confused as to not know HOW to come home even if he/she wants to. It's the HOW that interests me.
