Thank you all, yes, I have been through this before....and you are all right, he is always testing to see if I am willing. And I always am, but he just can't see that! What is he stupid, lol I mean just willing to talk to him, already once saying I was willing, isn't that enough!
But I will do exactly what you've all suggested, I thought about this before, I will sit, I will listen, and then I will watch, to see what his ACTIONS are. And then I will take it day by day. I will go on with my life as if nothing has changed until it does. Meanwhile he will have to chance it that I don't meet anyone else in the meantime. I will not put my life on hold.
I know he's scared, I can see it in his eyes, but he has to get off the fence. I cannot put my heart out there on his confusion.
Thank you all so much................I'll keep you posted.