Thanks guys. Suggestion well taken. I really need to let her fall down and not be there to catch her.
Tonight, my therapist suggested that I not allow her to move into the apartment, saying that I should not let an irrational woman make an irrational decision. I'm kind of on the fence with this. I want her to have her space and I also think it's a really stupid thing for her to move upstairs. It will create a whole new set of problems.
I was snooping and I found some OM memorabilia in her car including a coffee mug with a picture of them on it. I guess that looks aren't important to her
