John, I know it might not seem this way from your perspective but I would just let her struggle with this. Don't touch her or tell her your pulling for her because she thinks there is nothing wrong here. That adults do this everyday. She is miserable and won't realize why till she looks inside. Right now everyone else is making her miserable. She needs to take responsibility for herself and stop blaming others. Your best bet is to act happy as a clam. Do not question her about anything. It will seem like an attack. If she starts going off, look at your watch and tell her you have things to do and smile and tell her to have a great day. Pretend, and act as if. She is lost and if you try to lead her to water you will lose her. Rondo
