Hi John, I think there is a transition time that has to pass where your W mourns the loss of OM and then slowly can return to you. I try to think of my W as a new person, and she needs to fall in love again with you. So you will have to date, form an emotional bond again, and then fall in love and let time bring you together again. I don't think she can "flip on" love for you like a decision. Continue to give her attention, love, and support.
