Well I fell off the wagon today and let loose with both barrels. She told me that she would try to work on the R when she came back. We have done nothing toward that end since.

I'm just really angry that all of the hairbrain decisions that she has been making over the past couple of months have had negative effects on everyone around her. I told her to calm down, deal with her depression and then make her decisions. She's just trying to make herself feel better at everyone else's expense. Enough is enough. It's time she see how she is hurting everyone else.