Rayanne, thanks for the bump. It felt good.

John, It seems that my W is very depressed at the moment. She is probably mourning the breakup with OM. She refuses to acknowledge all of the hurt that she put on the people around her that love her. She is still making herself out to be the victim. I'm truing to give her space, but I've also confronted her about her showing no remorse for the affair or for abandoning the kids.

I'm hoping that her therapy will bring her around (with or without drugs).