If everyone will indulge me I am going try to start a journal and planning spot. I am not a gifted writer but this is a time of growth for me so here goes. I hope other's may bennefit from this and I look forward to input to help me in my efforts me rebuild my marraige.
My Wife and I have been marraied for 18 years and truly have struggled with closeness and intimacy for the last 13 years.
I need to take most of the blame for the troubles in our relationship though no all...Perhaps an 80/20 split. This is a good thing in that I have controll over and can work on my self. After all if all the problems were with wife it would leave me little room to be a DB practiconer and improve myself.
My Wife let me know in September that she needed to move out and was shopping for a house for her and the kids.
To be continued...
[ December 17, 2001: Message edited by: Eric Making Plans ]
