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Originally posted by LonelyAtNight:

Andy, you are right. Maybe my wife didn’t know what she really wanted and maybe she’s been spoiled by all this and taken for granted what she has had.

I think we're all guilty of taking each other for granted at some point. We're also all guilty of expecting our SO to be mind readers.

I guess part of DBing is to work on ourselves so we stop doing this. Hopefully, our SO will follow.


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Originally posted by LonelyAtNight:

Well, since I’v just moved in to this new place, I don’t know what the outcome would be. I hope for the best, but one of my neighbors (Kent) has already moved out, of course for the best. I’m happy for him and his family. I do hope to see you here someday too.

My second thread was called We don't know how the future will turn out Interesting, eh? Well, I've since moved to Bringing the Walls Down with a Teaspoon. Though Kent encouraged me to slide over to "piecing", I didn't have the courage.

I've put a link here, but we still don't seem to be working together on this. Getting closer (I hope).

I guess we never quite know what the outcome will be. Perhaps, because the destination keeps moving.

As to what rayanne said, I'd only add that sometimes there's nothing constructive we can do. Sometimes it's just time to go with the flow, and wait for the next "phase."

TTFN,
Andy


Andy