"She said that no one in her family seem to get alone with her or like her that much including her parents."
Wow, what's up with that? Does she really think this, or was it a pity-party moment? Is this a realistic perception of hers? Do YOU see any truth in this? Is there a little self-esteem problem going on here? Does she have any friends or other support groups? How "clingy" is she with your children?
Sorry, a lot of questions. It's just bothering me that someone would say something like this, actually percieve it. Gotta be tough on her, could make a difference on the steps you use in this dance, which direction you come from.
Stay slightly detached, take a break, build your strength back up, and hit it hard again later, my friend!
JJ
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