Hello all, You have helped me in the past when my husband was gone and left with the younger/stripper OW. He has come home and has been back for 16 mts. He says he has been trying but I don't see it. We have had fun but I think the main reason that he came back is because of our house and he wants his share. He is trying to fix it up to sell it and says he will buy me a new home and with both our names and he will take some money and move on but he will always love me and he wants us to move closer to his parents so I can help take care of them. Well, we have a great home that my inheritance paid the majority of it and I have paid all but 2 house notes with my money in 6 years. In the past my inheritance money was what he mainly went thru and when it was gone he left and found the OW...then he found out that she wasn't what he wanted and he said he was stuck. Then she found out that we were still seeing each other and she moved back home with her mother in another state. I did the divorcebusting and got him back but he said that he loves me but just doesn't want to be married. I've have been playing along with his game as fixing up the house but he isn't working now and just hanging around. We filed bankruptcy and went to court last week. I truly don't want to do what he says as selling the house. I don't trust him. I told him that he really hasn't tried like he should have...the moment he came home it was sell the home....of course we haven't yet. I'm still hanging on but I need some advice....We have a 12 year old son and he really went thru a hard time when he left us..so I don't know how he will take all this. I haven't mentioned anything to anyone. His sister however said that he really came home just for the house cause thats all the money he would get that is left and for me to stand my guns and don't sell as I have given him everything in the past. Sometimes he is wonderful and says that we are going to find a place together then he says that he will go his own way but we will still be close and will do things together and of course I can as long as I don't have anyone or be seeing anyone. HELP..... Rowena
