59 That is her problem not yours. Do not own it now.
I try not to own it but want to work with what is there.
it appears to me that many LD W's have little trouble saying no to sex (and mincing no words when doing so.) Yet for some reason have trouble communicating when they do want to ML
Right on brother. Throw in a BB's pickiness along with my easy going attitude, anytime almost anywhere and there are two divergent expectations/POV that causes me to feel like something is missing.
Even though, according to L4L, it may be the way things are
More woman-speak I suppose. The way I take it is no means try harder sometimes but other times no or reluctance means no?
I think LFL is saying some of the no's melt if the guy is alpha enough.
To me it is a lot like little kids saying they don't want to eat. When you take the food away, then they get interested. The more coaxing you do to get the kids to eat the more problems you encounter the next meal. I take it something like be the pack leader and expect the SO to follow through w/o complaining. Do it and hopefully the W will get something out of the encounter.
The other option is to buy into the complaints and no's and the more you do, the less happy the W is?
But I could be wrong.
FYI. Me not making breakfast for BB this AM has blown over and she is less critical. So maybe not cow-towing to BB's grumpiness earlier has some good results afterall. I guess some women like a little bad boy in their H. I suppose some would call it having a spine.
I guess some women like a little bad boy in their H. I suppose some would call it having a spine.
