i've read in michelle's book that LD women still love their husbands, even if they do not feel sexual desire for them. and she also says for HD husbands to not feel as though it is necessarily *because* of them that their wife is LD. my argument for this, i've just realized, is that - LD women remarry and *become* HD. how is this? unless it is because of the man or relationship? i really think it may be a matter of chemistry. and if it ain't there - or even if it once was and now isn't - there is no way of rekindling it. i'm not married, only engaged to a LD fiance. after all the advice and insight, i think it's time for me to go. and i think it's a matter of chemistry. there is nothing 2 people can do if the W or fiance does not desire them. no change of circumstance. no goals. nothing works.
