It was very good reading, but it made me feel more negtive about my H's affair. The writer did seem to consider the OW the love of his life and that kind of made me sad. The fact he never got to go through the daily grind to determine what daily living might have been with this person. Unless they get to go through difficult times with OP, they might just idolize that relationship (I worry that my husband may do this and never get over her. It's like the wife could never be good enough).
Did anyone else feel this way after reading this blog?
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
