WOW. I don't know what to say. This should be REQUIRED reading for BOTH sides of this stuff. This guy really has a talent for telling his story in a seemingly VERY honest way, not sugarcoaing anything. VERY powerful and important stuff.
It was VERY emotional for me to read some of what he wrote, especially the part where he posted the letters from the kids, but I consider this story one of the best I have read in terms of just putting out there what happens to an otherwise decent person (allegedly) when they fail to see how to work on a marriage and start looking outside to meet their needs.
His story also underlines a LOT of DB stuff, like validation and no R talk. He repeatedly talks about his W's inability to focus on anything but the affair when they were together as a major reason why they could never reconcile. He also emphisises forgivness and his feeling like he could not ASK for that but wished his W would have offered it. I just think this story validates SO much of what and why we do what we do around here.
Again, if you can stomach it, I really think this is a VERY good thing for us to read.
