I am really glad that things turned around for you, you're proof that there is hope.
I certainly don't want her to feel pressured. She is constantly saying how no one has ever just loved her, or made her feel loved. Everyone always dumps on her. I'm just trying to be that person and show her that I do love her. I don't want her to have to guess. I also know that I am going a bit overboard but I think it has to do with the anniversary only days away. That other significant dates have been hell for me(her bday, the kids bday, my bday...) so I'm trying to make this one as positive as I can.
